How does it feel? Planning your best homeschool year yet!
Welcome to Part 4 of planning your Best Homeschooling Year Yet.
In the last post we created a homeschool manifesto. Today we are going to look at feelings.
How does your homeschool feel to you right now? How would you like it to feel?
I recently read The Desire Map by Danielle Laporte, and had a big ‘ah-ha’ moment. She says that
“You are not chasing the goal itself, you’re chasing the feelings that you hope attaining those goals will give you.”
We often set goals for ‘things’ instead of thinking how the ‘getting the thing’ will make us feel. Yet what we are really wanting is the feeling. When you set a feeling for a goal, it allows you to open yourself up to getting what you want in unexpected ways. Sometimes we don’t even need the ‘thing’ to get the feeling we want.
Danielle says :
“When you get clear on how you want to feel, you may go after different things, and you may go after them differently.”
I know this is true for me. For a number of years now I have been setting a theme word for my year. And the word makes a big difference to how we live that year.
I realized that my theme words are about how I want to FEEL during that year. What emotions do I want to evoke?
It seems like such a simple thing to do, but it can really set the tone. Imagine how different your homeschool year would look as a year of ย ‘adventure’ vs a year of ย feeling ‘peaceful’. And when we strive for the feelings we want, instead of for arbitrary academic achievements, then we can really live our homeschool life more deeply and fully.
So how about you? What feelings do you want to associate with your homeschool this year? Set a word or two as the theme – and let me know what it is in the comments!
Loved and Protected are the two words that dominate my mind because from those two words the other words naturally flow. This is our first year of homeschool and first full year out of public school and I want my children to feel loved and protected.
Welcome to homeschooling Annie. I think those words are beautiful – especially for a first year of homeschool. I had one year with the word ‘Nourish’ because we were all getting run down and bored and I wanted to nourish us mentally and physically.
Thanks for your comment – I really appreciate it. Let me know how you get on with the next steps. Julie.
Productivity and Satisfaction are the two words that sum up my next homeschooling year. I’m going to use the timer this year as I felt we wasted valuable time last year which led to frustration.
I like the feeling of satisfaction when things are going the way I want them too, and I want that feeling for myself and my son.
Sounds good Sylvia. Wasting time is frustrating. I hope the timer helps you. ๐
Organized and Growth
This is our first year of homeschool and I am nervous. However I know if I develop an organized space and get some form of a plan together we’ll be just fine. I want growth for myself and my children. I know my children are bright and eager to learn and I know I can show them so many new and wonderful things. I look forward to growing together as a family. ๐
Great theme words Kate, especially for a first year. I think the two words will steer you well ๐
My words are Growth, Love, and Harmony. My sons are 12 and 14, and don’t always get along with each other or with me. I want this year to be a year we can become a better family, and they will gain a love for learning as well as the ability to express the love I know they feel for their family.
I think they are lovely words to choose Jane.
I have a page on my site about THINK bracelets – http://www.homeschooling-ideas.com/homeschool-ideas.html
Maybe that will give you some ideas for the boys.
Hi Julie
I want my kids to feel loved and valued. We are in month 8 of home Ed and my son has started now as he is 4.it is very challenging to have a 6 and 4 yr old to inspire esp with a nearly 2 yr old running around!
Welcome to Homeschooling Alex. Yes, I can remember they are challenging ages! It does get easier ๐