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A Homeschool Manifesto – Planning your Best Homeschooling Year Yet! — 2 Comments

  1. How do you impress all these characteristics on your children when you are imperfect in implementing them yourself? I know I need to try harder, but besides this what can I do?

    • Hi Jane. I think firstly identifying which characteristics are important to you takes you along way along the process. Then you could look for, and admire those traits in other people in front of the children. You could say things like “Wasn’t it wonderful to see how organized David was” or “Didn’t Sam’s love of learning shine through when he was telling us about xyz”. And of course, praise the children whenever they act in this way too. I was reading somewhere recently about how it was much better to tell a child “You worked very hard at that, well done” than to say “Aren’t you clever” because it helps them to understand that they can accomplish things if they work hard at them.
      If you show them that these characteristics are important to you – and that you try to have them too – then I think they will try to emulate that.
      Thanks for a great question! Julie.